Korean Woman Exposes A Pro Baseball Player For “Slut Shaming” Her After Two Pregnancies
On March 23, 2020, one Instagram account shared this picture of an ultrasound:
The caption revealed the alleged history between this Korean woman “A” and the professional baseball player Go Seung Min on the South Korean team Lotte Giants. She shared, “Go Seung Min and I began dating August 28, 2017.” By November 2017, she found out she was pregnant. Both only 18 years old though, the couple decided not to go through with the pregnancy — as suggested by their parents.
It was an important time in his life and I understood that. So I spoke with my parents and decided I’ll get an abortion.
— A
Unfortunately, in January of 2018, shortly after A had aborted the child, she found out that Go Seung Min had been cheating on her.
Apparently, when I was getting over the abortion, he had hooked up with another girl and kept in touch with her behind my back. I had no idea. Only when he left to Taiwan for training in January 2018, I found out by checking the social media account that we had been sharing. I was shocked, so I began asking my friends about what I should do.
— A
While A meant to work on the relationship with Go Seung Min, he had a different plan. Once he realized that A had found out about his affair, Go Seung Min began “slut shaming” A to his friends.
But he had access to my text messages, so he realized that I found out about his affair. He saw that I was asking my friends for advice. When he figured that out, he started spreading rumors about me to his friends. He covered up his mistake and blamed everything on me. After his friends gave me a lot of crap about my relationship with him, we broke up.
— A
The sad thing about human feelings is that it is uncontrollable. Even after being thrown under the bus, A couldn’t get over Go Seung Min. She explained, “I was still fond of him so I let him keep in touch with me.”
Picture of A and Go Seung Min, shared by A
When he came back from Taiwan in February, we got back together again. Until September, we dated in secrecy. In this time period, he got me pregnant again. When I found out and called him to ask what he thought we should do, he attacked me. He asked me how he could be sure the baby is his. He said he couldn’t trust me anymore.
— A
According to A, her second pregnancy ended in a miscarriage, caused by the stress induced from her frustrating relationship with Go Seung Min. As she battled this alone, Go Seung Min went on to the pro leagues and pretended A did not exist in his life anymore. Only after he signed with the Lotte Giants, he began apologizing for his past — in fear of A exposing him.
Go Seung Min’s apology DM, shared by A: “I know this sounds fake and forced but I really mean it. I’m really sorry, I didn’t know how you felt. I won’t ever do anything like this again. I won’t make you feel that way again. I’m sorry, even if you don’t accept my apology. I will live the rest of my life knowing I did you wrong.”
Yes, he only reached out to me when he was lonely and wanted sex. But like I said, I still had feelings for him, so I kept seeing him. I know that I was stupid to continue seeing him — That’s my fault. But I can’t deal with how his friends still spread rumors about me. Go Seung Min is now apologizing to me, scared that I will expose him.
— A
Once she heard Go Seung Min’s apology though, she decided to expose him. With two pregnancies gone awry, A claimed that she has infertility. That, combined with the constant slut-shaming and rumor-spreading she had to endure from his friends, led A to reveal everything online. A said, “It is extremely difficult to see him win at life.”
I’m sharing all this because I’ve become infertile but he’s doing fine. When the second pregnancy happened, the doctors told me another abortion could affect my fertility. So I wanted to keep the baby. But before I could do anything, I lost it in a miscarriage. Now the doctors tell me it might be impossible for me to get pregnant ever again. His friends are still slut-shaming me, while he’s out there winning at life. Now I want everyone to know that Go Seung Min is not as nice as he seems. I know I’ve done my wrong in this too, but he’s moving on like he had no part in this. That’s really unfair.
— A
Though the post has gone moderately viral, neither player Go Seung Min nor Lotte Giants have responded to the allegation yet. Meanwhile, netizens have come to a heated debate. While some responded with “So what?” kind of a reaction…
What does she want him to do, quit baseball?
— Netizen
… others reacted with unending support and encouragement for A.
Picture of A and Go Seung Min, shared by A
It’s hard when those feelings won’t die. You’ve come so far though, thank you for sharing this with everyone. Now we know better than to support a player who doesn’t respect women.
— Netizen
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